Welcome! I specialize in evidence-based therapy for intense emotions, anxiety, relationship concerns, and impulsivity, and have particular expertise in treating borderline personality disorder. My approach combines gold-standard treatments with compassion and non-judgment.
dr. Danielle esses; clinical psychologist
therapy in CA and NY
I value making therapy feel unintimidating and welcome you to reach out even if things feel messy.
Danielle Esses, PsyD (CA: PSY 36160, NY: 027627) is a clinical psychologist providing therapy in Beverly Hills and across California and New York via telehealth. Patients describe her as both gentle and straightforward — someone who maintains deep curiosity, builds trust through authenticity, and keeps them accountable without judgment.
Dr. Esses specializes in therapy for anxiety, relationship challenges, emotional sensitivity, and borderline personality disorder in adults and teens. Her patients are often thoughtful and big-hearted, and sometimes have trouble "trusting themselves" or find that they act before thinking. She also works with first responders and other professionals who have learned to shut off emotions to get through difficult work, though now feel disconnected or numb at home.
Danielle Esses, PsyD (CA: PSY 36160, NY: 027627) is a clinical psychologist providing therapy in Beverly Hills and across California and New York via telehealth. Patients describe her as both gentle and straightforward — someone who offers honest feedback, builds trust through authenticity, and keeps them accountable without judgment.
Dr. Esses specializes in therapy for anxiety, relationship challenges, emotional sensitivity, impulsivity, and borderline personality disorder in adults and young adults. Her patients are often thoughtful and big-hearted, and sometimes have trouble "trusting themselves" or find that they act before thinking. She also works with first responders and other professionals who have learned to shut off emotions to get through difficult work, though now feel disconnected or numb at home.
Meet Dr. danielle Esses
- High emotionality
- Relationship issues
- Borderline personality disorder (more on BPD here).
- Anxiety and obsessive compulsive patterns
- Substance and alcohol use
- Self-harm and suicidality
- Occupational stress and trauma (e.g., among healthcare workers, first responders)
specialties
Dr. Esses blends her expertise in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) - a present-focused and practical approach - with a psychodynamic understanding of how past experiences and current relational dynamics shape emotional life.
approach
As a twin, I grew up intimately familiar with both contrast and connection, an early lesson in holding paradox. My personality and therapeutic style reflect the contrast of the two coasts that have shaped me: I resonate with New York’s grit and authenticity, which shows up in my directness and sense of humor. I equally identify with California’s openness and calm, reflected in my commitment to groundedness, curiosity, and validation.
As a twin, I grew up intimately familiar with both contrast and connection, an early lesson in holding paradox. My personality and therapeutic style reflect the contrast of the two coasts that have shaped me: I resonate with New York’s grit and authenticity, which shows up in my directness and sense of humor. I equally identify with California’s openness and calm, reflected in my commitment to groundedness, curiosity, and validation.
She draws on other evidence-based approaches when helpful. Her work is grounded in slowing down together, noticing emotional patterns as they unfold in the therapy space, and building the insight and regulation needed to create lasting change.
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schedule a free consultation call
If you’ve reviewed the basic details (more about my practice here, or ask a question here) and want to talk about fit, you’re welcome to book a 15 min consultation call.
Most people reach out when things feel messy or unclear—I'm here to help guide you. During the call, you can share what’s bringing you to therapy, ask any questions, and get a sense of my style and approach.