Welcome! I specialize in evidence-based therapy for emotion dysregulation, anxiety, relationship concerns, impulsivity, and borderline personality disorder. My approach combines gold-standard treatments with compassion and non-judgment.

dr. Danielle esses; clinical psychologist

therapy in CA and NY

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I value making therapy feel unintimidating and welcome you to reach out even if things feel messy.

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Danielle Esses, PsyD (CA: PSY 36160, NY: 027627) is a clinical psychologist providing therapy in Beverly Hills and across California and New York via telehealth. Patients describe her as both gentle and straightforward — someone who offers honest feedback, builds trust through authenticity, and keeps them accountable without judgment.


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Dr. Esses specializes in therapy for anxiety, relationship challenges, emotional sensitivity, and borderline personality disorder in young adults and adults. Her patients are often thoughtful and big-hearted, and sometimes have trouble "trusting themselves" or find that they act before thinking. She also works with first responders and other professionals who have learned to shut off emotions to get through difficult work, though now feel disconnected or numb at home.

Danielle Esses, PsyD (CA: PSY 36160, NY: 027627) is a clinical psychologist providing therapy in Beverly Hills and across California and New York via telehealth. Patients describe her as both gentle and straightforward — someone who offers honest feedback, builds trust through authenticity, and keeps them accountable without judgment.

Dr. Esses specializes in therapy for anxiety, relationship challenges, emotional sensitivity, impulsivity, and borderline personality disorder in adults and young adults. Her patients are often thoughtful and big-hearted, and sometimes have trouble "trusting themselves" or find that they act before thinking. She also works with first responders and other professionals who have learned to shut off emotions to get through difficult work, though now feel disconnected or numb at home.

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Meet Dr. danielle Esses

  • High emotionality
  • Relationship issues
  • Borderline personality disorder (more on BPD here).
  • Anxiety and obsessive compulsive patterns
  • Substance and alcohol use
  • Self-harm and suicidality
  • Occupational stress and trauma (e.g., among healthcare workers, first responders)

specialties

Dr. Esses tailors her approach to each client’s unique needs. She is trained in a variety of treatment modalities, including DBT, CBT (including ERP and CPT), and psychodynamic therapies. 

approach

As a twin, I grew up intimately familiar with both contrast and connection, an early lesson in holding paradox. My personality and therapeutic style reflect the contrast of the two coasts that have shaped me: I resonate with New York’s grit and authenticity, which shows up in my directness and sense of humor. I equally identify with California’s openness and calm, reflected in my commitment to groundedness, curiosity, and validation. 

As a twin, I grew up intimately familiar with both contrast and connection, an early lesson in holding paradox. My personality and therapeutic style reflect the contrast of the two coasts that have shaped me: I resonate with New York’s grit and authenticity, which shows up in my directness and sense of humor. I equally identify with California’s openness and calm, reflected in my commitment to groundedness, curiosity, and validation. 

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Her personality and therapeutic style reflect the contrast of the two coasts that have shaped her: resonating with New York’s grit and authenticity, she uses directness and humor; equally identifying with California’s openness and calm, she is committed to groundedness, curiosity, and validation.

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